Stress at work and all of the drama in life we encounter have lowered our sex routines. Going to the Tampa body rubs can be a good boost to our sex life. However, some people are so stressed after being left by their partner. Couples’ sex can be erotic, intense, and rewarding, no doubt about it. But solo sex is also a common way to get a much-needed sexual outlet. About 80 percent of adults reported masturbating regularly. Even alone or without a partner, masturbation can be a private and enlightening experience. In this post, we share some ways to masturbate and have sex alone. So grab some lube, your favorite sex object, or both, and let’s explore the world of masturbation together.
Awaken All of Your Senses
Masturbation is more than just sexual activity. Although most solo sex sessions focus on touching, this should not always be the case. During sexual intercourse, the other senses are enhanced and expanded. If you have ever been blindfolded, you will know that the moment sight is impaired, all other sensations immediately become more intense. Every sensation, sound, touch, and smell seems stronger and more seductive. Bandages are not only useful for fulfilling BDSM fantasies.
For an even more intense encounter, you can cover or close your eyes when having sex alone. Try using a scented lubricant or light essential oils with aromas such as lavender and patchouli to stimulate the sense of smell. Use sensual music or exotic sexual stories to stimulate your auditory senses. Don’t be afraid to scream. Let everyone know how you feel. You can quickly induce orgasm by stimulating all the senses during solo sex.
Master the Art of Edging
The act of masturbation does not have to be a sprint. Solo sex is too often a means to an end, but what’s the rush? Slowly, with time and by perfecting the art of edging: here are some ways to enjoy all the splendor and pleasure that solo sex offers. If you don’t know what edging is, it is the art of controlling an orgasm. Basically, getting to the edge without losing your balance can add a tremendous amount of excitement to your solo session.
You stop when pleasure begins to build in your belly and between your legs, and you are about to release a powerful orgasm that shakes your body. Then you let your arousal subside before increasing it again. Yes, we realize that what you describe sounds like torture, and in a way it is. But it is the best torture because the reward is so rewarding.
Get Out of the Boring Setting
Speaking of variety, how often do you vary your masturbation routine? Do you always give yourself pleasure in the same environment and position, using the same specific technique? Change the script and add variety to your sex life, whether in the shower, touching your nipples in your living room, or watching porn on the computer.
Try lying on your stomach, sitting, or squatting instead of lying supine in bed. Take a nice relaxing bath or use your favorite waterproof sex toy to gently and deliberately touch yourself in the shower. Change the speed, pace, and energy of your solo pleasures as often as possible.
Heat Things Up in Your Mind
Solo sex, as the term suggests, is about exploring sexuality and pleasure alone. However, this does not prevent you from including other fantasies or people in your one-on-one conversations. Try to imagine a scary or even taboo situation when you masturbate. When you touch yourself, you can imagine someone standing in the corner of the room watching you. Close your eyes and imagine someone guiding your hand or a toy next to you. Audio porn and sexual material are also helpful in this situation.
That is all. These recommendations come from a sexologist acquaintance of mine. Yes, it is all too easy to let one’s sex life stagnate, and we are not just referring to sex with other people. By maintaining an exciting, spontaneous, and creative solo sex life, you can foster the development of new pleasure pathways in your body and brain. Listen and dream as you follow the erotic story. Consider yourself the protagonist as you explore your physical self and your naughtiest dreams. You might even find some fresh ones.
